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Step 1

Surprise him. Catch your man off guard by doing something new and unexpected. This could possibly be something he has been hinting around at, or something you know for sure he will like. Whatever your choice, be sure that he doesn’t know it is coming; that way, he has no time to prepare for it.

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  • Step 2

    Take charge. In order for most men to become vocal and scream in bed, they need to feel dominated. This will tap into their primal instincts to “howl at the moon.” Dominating your man and taking charge of a sexual experience will make him feel comfortable enough to become exceedingly vocal without being too self-conscious.

  • Step 3

    Turn the tables. The ongoing stereotype is that women are the ones to scream in bed, and usually because there is a man urging her on. Without hurting your man’s pride, don’t be afraid to make him say your name in bed. Tell him that you cannot hear your name loud enough. He may appreciate your effort, if nothing else. This will also encourage him to become more vocal.

  • Step 4

    Talk the talk. Before you do something in bed to your man, describe your process to him in a seductive manner. Doing so will paint a visual that will begin to excite him before you even touch him. Tell him how much you like what he is doing when he is in control of a sexual experience, as this will also help to push him closer to the point of screaming.

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