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1. Don’t Bombard Him with Messages

The absolute worst thing you can do is bombard them with your own messages when somebody is not responding to you. It’s the easiest and fastest means to push someone away. I know how irritating it is to go without a feedback, however do not begin sending a bunch of texts, calling, attempting Facebook messages and texting his friends to see if he’s with them. It looks desperate and also makes you seem a little crazy — it’s just way too overwhelming.

2. Send A Casual Text To See What’s Up

Nevertheless, it’s totally acceptable to reach out to him once or two times to state what’s up. If he hasn’t responded to your text in 3 days or he stated he would call and never ever did, shoot him an easy and casual and playful text. I would personally drop it if you don’t get a response a 2nd time. Stay casual about it — if you send out a mad, demanding text right away, he’s definitely not going to answer.

3. If Possible, Reach Out In Person

Casually try to see him in person. You’ll be able to get his vibe when you see him in person. Plus it will give you the opportunity to dress to impress, and ignite his attention. Men are very visual creatures and sometimes they need a friendly reminder of how fantastic you are. You’ll know something is up if he acts unusual or is really avoidant.

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