Trying to move on but you can’t seem to let go of the past? Still holding on to previous grudges and hurt that ended your last relationship? Have you joined the plotting and planning committee with other men or women seeking revenge on the person who hurt you? If you answered yes to the above questions please walk with me as I suggest some ways of coping with your ended relationship assisting you with moving forward with your life.
I know he/she dogged you out leaving you to feel hurt, humiliated and doubtful of yourself esteem but, now is the time to let go. The more time you spend plotting & planning for your revenge; you are wasting time allowing the person that hurt you be in control. You could be using this time to heal your broken heart and move on with your life.
When you step into a new relationship don’t automatically assume this new person has the exact same thing going on as the last person. Just because a person has the same characteristics does not make this the same person. You don’t want to make an impression that you are a bitter lover. Being bitter towards your ex empowers them to know that you have not moved on and you are still pondering over that hurt. Don’t spoil it for everyone else that finds you simply irresistible instead be willing to accept those features that were missing from your previous relationship. Being in a relationship is like gambling with love sometimes you’ll win and unfortunately sometimes you will lose.
Come to terms with yourself that they just missed out on a good thing. You were the reward.