A few days ago, I was browsing through my friends' Match.com account and ended up stumbling upon the pages of women I attended high school and college with. These women, who I've known for years and had never had trouble hooking up and finding a boyfriend in college, seemed to have issues doing so after we turned our tassels from one side to the other.

A few days ago, I caught another one of the 1,000 specials created by ABC, NBC and CNN about the lack of educated and employed Black men available for Black women, and how the Black family is on the brink of being endangered. Frankly, I’m tired of seeing these specials, although opening up a conversation […]