Relationships - Page 3

Learn how to recognize the difference between healthy intimate relationships and toxic dynamics. Spot warning signs, set boundaries, and protect your mental health.

Jermaine Dupri Wonders Why No One Asks If Janet Jackson Fumbled Him? Jermaine Dupri recently discussed his past relationship with Janet Jackson, stating that he doesn’t believe he “fumbled” her. In a recent interview, Dupri expressed confusion over the concept of “fumbling” and suggested that perhaps Jackson was the one who “fumbled” him. He emphasized […]

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Nick Cannon on Being ‘Very Comfortable in Supporting Mariah Carey Nick Cannon recently shared on his podcast that he had no problem supporting Mariah Carey during their marriage, noting that they both respected and admired each other’s career trajectories. Cannon expressed his admiration for Carey’s work and passion, saying he was comfortable supporting her and […]

The newly engaged couple hard launched their relationship and engagement on social media with a kiss against a sun-covered backdrop.

We’ve all heard it: Never go to bed angry. It sounds noble, like the secret to a perfect relationship. But here’s the problem… Trying to hash out a disagreement before bed often means you’re arguing when you’re emotional, defensive, and tired. And that’s a recipe for disaster.  Sleep deprivation messes with the higher functions of […]

Odd clause in Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon’s divorce settlement Mariah Carey’s settlement with ex-husband Nick Cannon reveals financial details of their co-parenting arrangement for their twin children. The agreement includes a clause prohibiting the kids from referring to future spouses as ‘mum’ or ‘dad’. Despite their separation in 2014, Mariah and Nick remain amicable […]

Some people turn into a stand-up comedian the second things get serious.  I’ve seen this in my therapy office.  Moving in together, money, big emotions – and people are using humor to deflect.  On the surface it can seem harmless (or even charming)…but in reality, it’s an unhelpful defense mechanism.  It can feel safer to […]

Cardi B opens up on toxic past with Offset as she moves on with Stefon Diggs Cardi B opened up about her breakup with Offset, revealing that the toll of infidelity and lies led her to a breaking point where she felt mentally drained and paranoid. The Grammy-winning rapper admitted that she was on the […]

Let’s just be real: there’s this running message in and outside the church that says abstinence is only for a particular “type” of Christian. You know, the super spiritual ones. The ones who don’t struggle. The ones who aren’t dating. Or the ones who are “called to singleness forever.” Somehow, we’ve watered down abstinence to a suggestion, instead of seeing it as what it is, a call to holiness.

Nothing says "single woman in her 30s" like being flooded with "here's how I found my husband in 12 months and you can too" content on social media. I've seen it all as someone who's walked through 13 years of singleness. The "wife schools" are coaching programs tailored to successful Christian women, the polished reels that prey on our desire for love and companionship.

Every couple has a beginning—a moment, a spark, a shared laugh or glance that set everything in motion. Revisiting that story, the story of how you met, isn’t just a sentimental trip down memory lane. It’s a powerful way to reconnect. My husband Andy and I met 9 years ago Sunday.  And do you know what […]