You want to be swept off your feet, go out to a dinner, enjoy a bottle of wine, see a movie, stroll through a park, feed some birds, and then cap the night off with great passionate sex in a candle lit bedroom on a bed covered with rose petals.
More couples are falling out of love and into the arms of others simply because their sex life is not what it used to be when they first started the relationship. How or why you ask?
Your sex life suffers when you get busy, you have a kid or more, you suffer an injury or illness, you spend time apart due to a job or a fight, one of you cheats and you still stay together, or you simply get bored of sex (it is possible for some). Yes life does get in the way of what most adults consider to be sex.
By simply changing your expectations of what sex is or was to you, you can have more sex in a year than you ever did before! Women do prefer more foreplay and men usually do not. So how do you fix that part of the puzzle?
Foreplay, when done correctly, does take time and is an art to be mastered. Yet we can all be masters by not viewing foreplay as the necessary pre-requisite to actual sexual penetration. Women, take a deep breath, I will explain. Men, don’t celebrate just yet, you’re not off the hook.
Start today within your busy schedule, or working through your physical pain, or when your kid is out playing or taking a nap, or after a fight when one of you has already forgiven the other.
Do one thing to/for the other person and allow them to reciprocate but not immediately! You want to avoid orgasms during these sessions Wait at least an hour. Repeat this step as many times as possible or as many times as you can fit into your hectic life. This will build up sexual tension and have you hot all day. In short, “mess around” like you were younger without having actual penetration.
While you are building tension, be sure to setup a date night, or a minimum of for hours where you can be alone uninterrupted. This is the time you want to spend having that deep, naughty, heated, animalistic, nasty, even romantic sex. You will not need to worry about foreplay because, if you spend ample time creating that sexual tension daily, you should both be on the verge of sexual explosion already.
If you follow this method, you will have sexual acts everyday of the year and many orgasmic nights along the way all of which will keep your relationship permanently bonded. Enjoy!
