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Getting to know his schedule means being a considerate girlfriend.Be aware of his daily schedule, so you don’t interrupt meetings with your calls or texts. Since he wants to catch you when he can, he’ll be happy to give you a copy of his schedule.

 

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    Understand your man's needs and support his goals.Listen to his needs. His career may take a lot of time, or perhaps it is his family or sports that require his attention. Find out what these activities mean to him and be supportive.

     

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    Take advantage of openings in his schedule by accepting spontaneous invitations.Be flexible. Although you can’t be at his “beck and call” all the time, you can accept a spontaneous invitation to lunch  Late dinner when he is available as long as you don’t simply become a “booty-call.”

     

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    Keep conversations short,so he knows he can connect to you any time he gets a brief chance.Keep it short and sweet. Encourage him to touch base with you when he’s busy by sending him a very short “thinking of text when he is away. By doing this you stay on his mind and make him smile without creating drama.

     

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    Romantic gestures are important to keep the relationship going.Be full of surprises. Romance is difficult for some in any circumstances, so go the extra mile for your busy man. Leave Write little love notes in his pants pockets, bring him his favorite carry-out during a late work evening or call him with a sexy invitation for a back rub after he helps his friends move.

     

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    Honesty is important to keep the relationship on track.Be honest with your needs. Dating a busy man doesn’t work for every woman, so be honest with yourself and with him  Let him know you appreciate the little calls and thoughtful things he does or end the relationship if it’s clear he doesn’t want to make time for you.