) Keep your man well fed! When my husband and I were first married, I barely knew how to open a can of soup. He would come home from work complaining that Steve’s wife always sent leftover dinner for his lunch the next day, and sometimes she would even send enough for my husband to eat as well. At first, I would call her a pathetic, infatuated, and an overly submissive wife. As time went on, I started to feel guilty, and I decided to pick up a few simple cook books on the internet. I started gradually, making a few small dinners a couple nights a week, after all, I had a full time job as well. I noticed that by my doing this, he started to appreciate me more, and showed it charming actions. I am proud to say that I now cook six nights a week, and not Hamburger Helper either. I am creative in the kitchen, and like to mix things up, never cooking the same meal more than twice a month. Now it is my husband who brings his leftovers to work the next day, and his co workers who go home bragging about my cooking!
Keep up with your physical appearance! I know there are many body types out there, but ladies, we are all beautiful in our own way. If you can find the time to watch TV 30 minutes a day, you can find the time to walk or jog around the block. You don’t have to get on a hard core workout system to look and feel good. There is not a man out there who is attracted to a lazy woman. Put a little pizzazz on your face. I am not suggesting you cake cosmetics all over your face, but statistics prove that women are prone to be more successful in life by wearing makeup than women who don’t. Sounds a little sexist and vain, I know, but I’m trying to be straightforward and honest with you. Don’t waste your life away wishing that you had taken better care of yourself, just do it, for yourself, and for the man you love.
Keep your man sexually satisfied! Now I know, you’re tired after a long day of work, cooking dinner every night, and putting the kids to bed, but if you don’t give him sex, believe me, someone else will. Let me guarantee you ladies, if you’re cooking for your husband every night, your working out 30 minutes a day and feeling more and more confident in yourself, you are going to want to have sex with your husband a lot! Even if you’re not in the mood for sex, ACT LIKE YOU ARE. Come on, it’s not like it last’s that long anyway. Fake a smile, let out several moans of excitement, then you get to go to bed. Look at it this way, sex is actually really good cardio, so if you have sex with your husband, you only have to jog for 28 minutes that day.
When I was younger, I always knew that I was an independent woman, and I didn’t need a man to be in charge of my life. I knew that I would never make my husband’s dinner plate, never count on him for my financial needs, and he would never be able to tell me what to do. I now laugh every time I think of how immature I was. Our life isn’t perfect, but it is certainly close to it, and I have to give credit to following these three rules. They are so simple, yet so efficient. Good luck Ladies!!
