Take good care of yourself. Stay in shape and eat a healthy diet. Make sure you all well-groomed at all times (hair, nails, makeup). If you take pride in how you look, the man in your life will take pride in that as well.
Be confident. Confidence is not only a man’s game. Men like women who are sure of themselves and where they are going in life. If you are not all that confident naturally, fake it until you no longer have to.
Figure out where your guy hangs out, and you hang out there, too. Before he can fall in love with you, he has to like you first. Studies have shown the more we are exposed to a stimulus (person, place or thing), the more we like it. So, the more he sees you, the more he will like you.
Once he likes you and gets used to having you around, start to become less and less available. There is truth to the saying “Absence makes the heart grow fonder,” so make him miss you and work extra hard to have you around. Remember: things easily gotten are easily replaced.
When you talk to each other, look longingly into his eyes. Studies have shown that people who are really in love look at each other 75 percent more than those who are not, regardless of whether they are alone or in a group. So hold eye contact with him longer than normal, and you can trick his brain into believing he’s in love with you.
Make him feel like he is the only man in the world for you. Whether it’s a small note wishing him a good day, a light caress or gentle kiss, make sure he feels like he is the only man in your world. Men like the women in their lives to make them feel special, and the woman who can do that will be the one he loves.
