Do you realize that it is perfectly possible for you to have a relationship that lasts forever? And a relationship that is not just normal, or struggling, but that is consistently great. I believe that you can have a relationship where you are soul mates with your partner, and in love, and that you can have this over many many years .
- The first thing is “Never ever forget to say I Love You to your partner”. Remember that love is the basis of every relationship. And, you need to show your partner that you still love him/her and care for him/her.
- Find time for each other. Do not get so much engrossed in your other family members that you start neglecting your partner. Remember that it is because of him/her only that you have made these new relationships.
- Do not forget to give compliments. You need to reassure your partner that you still find him/her attractive. But, please be genuine. Your partner will easily see through the act of complimenting just for the sake of it. Find something that you really like in him/her.
- Take a break from the routine life, work, family, kids, etc. Both of you should take a vacation to brink back the spark in your life as well as to come closer to each other.
- Never ever let a communication gap come up between the two of you. Remember that any and every problem can be solved as long as you talk to each other.
- Go on a date once a month, to relive the past memories as well as to let each other know that you are still very much in love.
- Plan surprises for each once a while. Like giving a gift, taking for a candle lit dinner or a movie or both, going on a long drive out of the blue, etc.
