Earn people’s trust. As much as you lie, as good as you think you are at it. Lies have a way of exposing themselves. It becomes difficult to remember which lie you told, and people catch on to this. Earning someone’s trust will benefit you in a lot of ways. Much more than lying will ever generate. Trust has a lot of perks in like. From work, relationships, and friends. You start earning real trust, good things start happening. Going around and lying is not going to earn trust. People aren’t dumb. You maybe be able to trick them a few times with a lie, but they catch on quick.
Gain self-esteem. Everyone lies to themselves at one point in their life. You lie to convince yourself certain situations, or things are better than what they are. Being honest isn’t just about not telling lies to others around you. It’s about seeing yourself as well, for who you really are. It’s like lifting a heavy burden that you’re carrying when you can start seeing yourself and situations for what they really are. You can always lie to yourself, but never to your subconscious. Your subconscious picks up things. Learn to be honest with yourself, you’ll develop more confidence and a higher self-esteem about who you are. If you don’t like something, change it, just don’t try to lie to yourself and hide it. Because it’s not going to help you.
Less stress in your life. Lying has very, very dangerous results that come with it. When you lie, you’re risking a lot. It’s time to be honest in your life. You are risking relationships with people you care about, possibly a job, if you’re lying to get ahead in it. You are risking a lot, and you will carry that burden with you. Because you WILL get exposed of lies eventually. Everything catches up to you eventually. Do you really want to live with the stress of being a fake? Of hurting others, and most of all, just hurting yourself with lies? Lying doesn’t make you feel truly good, even if even you’re benefiting from it. You still worry about getting caught and it all going bad. Which it always happens.
Using better judgment. When you’re caught up in lies, your natural instincts and judgment goes to waste as well. You don’t see things with clarity, and you start to make mistakes in general. Your mind becomes clogged up. When you start being honest, you start trusting your judgment more. Your instincts are sharper and you seem to have a much better understanding of situations and things.
Increase the number of relationships. When you’re honest, something people do pick up. You become much more likable and you attract more friends in your life. You develop much closer relationships with the loved ones around you. Being honest is a positive vibe that others pick up. When you’re honest you seem content, and not so insecure. People who are extremely insecure, and sensitive are ones who probably lie a lot.
Your confidence will increase Since everything it out in the open, you’re honest to others and yourself everything is okay. You don’t have to constantly worry, or hide who you are anyone. That burden is gone, you’re more relaxed, and enjoying life. Everything feels better. It’s true, you’ll feel more confident and happy by being completely honest. You can just feel comfortable in your own skin, and feel good knowing the real you is better than the lying person.
