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He Does Look at Other WomenNot because he wants to cheat, but because men are visually stimulated. Getting mad at him for looking is justgoing to make him sneak a peek. Hey, it’s just a passing glance. It’s not like we don’t check guys out too!He Needs Time Away From YouMen need time to reflect, socialize and just get away from it all. Men like the time to regroup. It doesn’t mean that they don’t want to be with us, it is just an escape to appreciate what they have at home. So lighten up, while he’s out of the house. Take that time for yourself, go out with your girlfriends, or do something you enjoy.He Just Doesn’t Feel Like Being Bothered SometimesYou’ve probably asked him to do something several times, but yet he still doesn’t do it in a timely manner. In frustration, you do it yourself. What is he thinking, “Thank Goodness!” Men do things at their own pace. Unlike women, men are not good at multi-tasking. You can ask your man to take out the trash and 3 hours later, it’s still there. Technically, he still has time to take out the trash. In his mind, the trash isn’t going anywhere anytime soon, and if you do it yourself, that just makes it better for him.He Really Enjoys GossipIf your man overhears you gossiping on the phone, he’ll probably shake his head in disapproval. However, if he talks about Joe and Margaret, his co workers who are having an affair, it’s not gossip. Actually men enjoy to gossip. They just have a different name for it “Commenting.”Yes, He’s Thinking About SexYour man has a far away look in his eyes. He seems distant. He was thinking about sex. He can’t help it, he thinks about it several times a day. Wouldn’t you prefer that he thinks about it several times a day rather than having sex several times a day?When His Voice Goes High, or He Answers a Question With the Same Question, He’s Thinking of a LieIf you ask your man, “What You’d Do Today?’ and he replies “What I’d Do Today?” he’s probably thinking of lie. It doesn’t mean that he did something inappropriate, just something you wouldn’t approve of. Maybe, he left work early to hang out with the guys. If he told you this, you’d be upset because you had a long day at work or were at homewith the kids. The problem is he was having too much fun to think about if you would ask him that question, so he didn’t plan a lie beforehand.Nothing is Wrong, So Stop Asking HimAdmit it, you see your man sitting quietly and you naturally assume something is wrong or has happened. So you ask, “What’s wrong?” and he replies, “Nothing, I’m just thinking.” Well, this answer doesn’t satisfy you, so you ask again throughout the day, which leads to his frustration. Men reflect too! He was probably thinking about how he wants to change careers, if you are satisfied and happy with him, how he can make more money, how he doesn’t want to grow old and fat, or how he would really like to buy a new car or motorcycle. Ask him once, and then leave it alone.