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Needing constant validation – some women are so insecure they keep asking for reassurance about their looks, their attractiveness and whether their man really loves them.

Always checking up on him – you don’t have the right to know what he is doing every second of the day, especially if you have only just started dating.

Worrying about the State of the Relationship – men like to take things day by day, and are not thinking about the future when they have just started dating you. Allow things to take their natural course. You will know if he really is feelin it.

Having unrealistic expectations – especially wanting to spend every minute of your time with him. Most men need some alone time to unwind and be them.

Conflict

Of course you are going to argue. No healthy relationship is without its differences. But you need to able to handle them without losing your cool. STAY COOL.

And you are also going to disagree. There will be some things on which, no matter how much you argue, you will never be able to agree.

When there are problems between you, you need to find ways of discussing and solving them that don’t cause the conflict to escalate and become full-scale fights.

He doesn’t have to agree with you about everything. But you do need to accept your differences and learn to live with them.

In arguments, try to focus on the problem.