How To Keep The Spice In Your Relationship

Another thing I like to do is maintain the appearance! It is so easy to slip into the I already got a man so why should I shave my legs every week? routine. I think it is important to keep your appearances up as much as you did while you were single! You wouldn’t like it if your significant other just stopped caring about what he wore, shaving, letting his beer belly get larger, so why should we do it? Take a day a week to do whatever it is you got to do. Give yourself a manicure, paint your toenails, shave, make sure you still have two eyebrows. Also make sure to keep up on the hair, get that touch up on your color every month or two.

Wear Sexy underwear! Okay, so I know how uncomfortable “sexy” underwear can be sometimes. I am the first one to admit that thongs feel like I have a wedgie the entire day. When I was single I would wear them to feel sexy, and then as soon as I get into a long-term relationship those thongs get pushed back into the back of the underwear drawer. Bust them out again! Wear them on a dreary Monday and then come home from work take those pants off and show him that you still got it going on!

Spice it up in the bedroom. Don’t just stick to the same routine all the time. Try different positions and don’t be afraid to try different locations of the house! Do a surprise attack when he is sitting on the coach watching some lame TV show (probably not a good idea while an important sports event is on).

This is probably the key to keeping that fire lit between the two of you…..Give him space! And give yourself space! Have your own life outside the relationship. The fire dies out pretty quickly if you spend every waking moment together. Go out with the girls, let him go out with the guys. Don’t be a clingy partner! Nobody likes to be with a clingy person. Have fun and appreciate one another and remember that you fell for each other because you had different lives from each other that make the two of you unique!