Avoid drama. If you ask any man, this is the number one turn off. Men want to avoid drama with all costs. Don’t become the kind of person who constantly causes problems, arguments, and act overly sensitive easily. When he does something you don’t like, discuss things rationally with them. Also don’t be too harsh and expect too much from them.
Pay attention to them and make them feel confident. Men can definitely suffer from being insecure, something women don’t always realize. Women get insecure physically, where men get insecure mentally.
Be cool. Seems pretty simple, but men like cool. Men like a woman they can brag about, saying she likes this, and that. When I say cool, don’t turn into their mom. Don’t be over sensitive, critical, or emotional with them. Don’t treat them like they’re a baby. Never, ever talk down to them either, especially around people. Be funny around them, and be who you are. Be relaxing around them, you’ll push the right buttons with them. This doesn’t mean you can’t express yourself, and your thoughts to them. You just don’t have be intense about it.
