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Playing hard to get tips to increase your chances of success

  • Being available and eagerly answering the phone every time they call may not be in your best interest.
  • Create an air of mystique and answer when you are ready and want to talk to them, after all it’s your phone and only you can choose when to answer it.
  • Keep them sweating it out and you will avoid the image of being a desperate and easy person and you will soon learn how serious they are about rekindling the relationship. Keep them guessing by keeping your cool.
  • Avoid talking everyday with your ex to avoid either of you losing interest and creating boredom. Being available all the time won’t build the suspense that you need to keep the interest up.
  • Playing hard to get will require you to never ever show any signs of being desperate or needy. Always keep your attitude positive and it will reflect to your advantage in your actions.
  • Keep that aura of mystery alive by not talking as much as you are used to doing, Act the silent type and you will build up their curiosity and force them to ask more questions about you.

When you can clearly see that progress has been made on getting back together you can ease up on some of these tactics but you can keep their interest high by retaining that sense of mystery that you have created by playing hare to get.