Here are three things that I think you should worry about, at least a little bit:
1) You notice that he is acting very distant from you lately.
Sometimes this can be a sign that he is ready to leave you and by distancing himself, he is just making it easier for the day when he does end the relationship. Sometimes, it just means that he is going through something and the way that he knows how to deal with that is to distance himself. 2) You feel like you just cannot seem to trust him, even though you really want to.
When you feel like you don’t trust a guy you are dating, that is usually a cause for concern. One of the little tricks that women can sometimes play on themselves is to start to think that the problem is with them, when it is really with the guy that they are dating. If you are not usually jealous and suspicious in a relationship, but the guy you are with right now makes you feel that way… that might be something that is going to be an issue down the road and something that you want to pay attention to.
3) You can’t seem to get him to open up about himself.
If you have tried a lot to get him to talk more to you or to open up more about himself and it doesn’t seem to do much at all, then that may be something that is worth worrying about. Part of having a long term relationship is getting to know one another and if you can’t seem to get him to open up about himself, then you might hit a point where you really don’t feel that connected to him and that can sabotage the relationship.
