DO NOT under any circumstances force him to talk to you. Just accept that sometimes he’s not going to want to talk.
Choose your battles sparingly. If you are really committed to loving this man, this is the time to show it. Well, you ask, how do I do that?
By letting things go. Just for now. You can fight about it later if it’s really that serious.
So during this time of stress, focus on this rule: Unless what he is doing/has done is imminently life-threatening or heartlessly malicious, just LET IT GO.
IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT YOU! When your man is going through a hard time, it’s easy to take his lack of attention personally. You start to feel like he doesn’t want to share his feelings WITH YOU, he is shutting YOU out, he is withdrawing FROM YOU.
