Enjoy the benefits of better relationships by strengthening your interpersonal communication skills. The basic rules apply no matter who you’re communicating with, whether it’s your spouse, your child, a friend or your boss. Remember it’s a two-way street; be sure to listen more than you talk and make eye contact. Smile if it’s appropriate. Your goal is to foster understanding and trust.
Whether or not you’re married, communicate with the special person in your life. Don’t assume you know what your partner is thinking or feeling. If you’re wrong, misunderstanding can lead to unnecessary conflict. Instead of guessing, ask. It can save hurt feelings. Speaking of hurt feelings, be sure to apologize if you’re wrong. A sincere “I’m sorry” goes a long way in a relationship. Sincere compliments are good too. Remember why you chose to be with your partner, and it will be easy to pay a compliment every day.
