TALK. Open up and reach out to your loved one. Tell that person your feelings, your dreams, your upsets, your nightmares, your secrets, your past, and your hopes. Talk about what makes you happy and what gets on your nerves. Keep the line of communication open always. Never be afraid of opening up and speaking your mind. Your partner will be there to listen. In fact, your loved one truly wants you to reach out and to share all the good and bad. Tell the truth, and the truth will set you free. Talk together about everything, and everything will work out. Talk and love your partner again!
TOUCH. Show your affection to your loved one. Show that person you care by holding hands, by kissing, by hugging, by cuddling, by making love, and by taking a shower together. Caress your loved one. Give that person a long meaningful massage. Rub each other’s feet. Pull back the hair out of her face. Run your fingers hrough his hair. Hold each other really close before going to bed. Be playful and flirty with each other. Give great big bear hugs out of the blue! Slow dance with her in the middle of the living room. Ask questions about how to show affection. Touch and love your partner again!
TIME. Spend quality time with your loved one. Take some time and go for a walk, go to the mall, go run errands, go to the movies, go get a drink, and go for a drive. Do absolutely nothing with each other. Cook dinner together. Wake up and spend the whole day together. Grow a garden and plant flowers together. Clean the house. Go to a concert. Workout with each other. Take a bike ride. Hike a trail together. Sit on the couch and talk. Play a game. Read a book together. Watch the sun go down. Take a long bath. Make each moment mean something special. Take time and love your partner again!
THANK. Appreciate your loved one. Never take for granted your partner. Show your appreciation by saying thank you, by smiling, by doing something in return. Send a card with a personal note. Send flowers. Draw a hot bath for her. Cook a nice dinner for him. Take her out for a dinner and a movie. Go outside with him and do something fun and active. Never give up on each other. Help each other out during hard times. Enjoy and be thankful for the good times. You do not have to give back with money but you can still show your gratitude. Give thanks and love your partner again!
