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Preparing yourself properly can pay big dividends in the bedroom. Simple thought processes can strengthen the desires and prime the pump for some great sex. Think about your favorite sexual fantasy before the actual event. Let your mind get your body ready for action.
The key to having great sex starts with communication. If there is something that you really like or turns you on then let your partner know that. Waiting and hoping for it to happen can lead to a possible disappointment. Letting your partner know what turns you on will deliver satisfaction both mentally and physically. When those certain pleasures have been obtained then express your satisfaction. “I like it when you do this or that” works every time.
Sexual needs and desires vary from person to person. Communication with your partner can let you know what works and what doesn’t. When that knowledge is obtained, then practice makes perfect. Find out what actions can turn on her tap of natural lubrication and then work it. She will be happy and so will you.
Since the common goal here is to obtain sexual climax, focus your efforts on a completion for both you and your partner. Don’t be selfish in your efforts to achieve orgasm. If satisfaction is not gained by both of you, then a sense of disappointment becomes the final result and that can affect any future actions and attitudes concerning sexual attractions and desires. One that focuses solely on his own satisfaction will end up achieving that satisfaction alone.
Remembering what you learned about what turns your partner on, and then applying it every time can gain you the distinction of being a great lover. In the eyes of your partner, you will be separated from the group of ordinary, or bad lovers, and placed higher on her trophy shelf. Forgetting what you learned will most likely get you forgotten too.
