- Men are visual. So if you’re trying to arouse your partner start with something visual. Dress up (or down) for him. Put on some nice makeup. Rent an erotic movie for you to watch together. Give him something nice to look at first.
- Men like it when you talk dirty to them. To a man, there is nothing more beautiful – or arousing – than a sexually uninhibited woman. To have a woman let herself go sexually makes a man feel he ‘has what it takes’ to really turn a woman on. So when you talk a bit dirty to a man – whether in person, by phone, text or email – it makes a man feel proud to have had that effect on you.
- A man likes it when you say he looks good nude.
- Men want you to start things first in that bedroom sometimes.
- Men Want sex everyday.
- Men want to pleasure you, and they know that means going slow – just keep gently reminding him of that.
- Men are not mind readers. They wish they were! In dealing with women, just think how many problems that would solve! But they’re not, and knowing how a woman is responding can be very confusing for a man at the best of times. So please help him out – tell him what you like, what you don’t like, what you want more of, and what you want less of. And he’d be delighted to do it.
