- It takes time. Don’t pressure yourself to trust. It takes time to build. The harder you try, the worse it’s going to get. Let time do it’s course, and realize that you love your partner and will do your best to be a better person for him or her. Be patient. It’s what turns a lowly caterpillar to a beautiful butterfly, as they say.
- The past is past. The past may hurt or bruise us even if we have tried to put it behind us. Instead of evading it, learn from it. Mistakes are the best teachers. It makes you grow and be more cautious when dealing with a decision. Appreciate what’s here and now and you’ll be happier, believe me.
- Learn it even if the hard way. Maybe you’re just thinking too much about your current issue that you end up miserable and paranoid. Loosen up. It’s not a burden to love. Love is supposed to inspire to be a better person. Make it your motivation to achieve your goals and dreams in life. Stop putting too much time on the negative side and instead, celebrate being in love!
Communicating with your partner is always the easiest and simplest way to determine, address and solve issues. If you’re jealous or a little bit insecure about something, don’t hide your feelings from your partner. Respect each others space however, and don’t nag. Nagging is a quick way to burn the love. Be honest of what you really feel so your partner can also adjust to accommodate your needs. Remember that you are allies, not enemies. Work it out together.
