Don’t: Be both a tease and a sure thing
We’ve all been told numerous times that men love a good challenge. There are moments when he doesn’t feel he is being challenged, he will let go of someone he is interested in. As such, you should always keep him interested by being playful. Note: be playful, not a tease. Do not deny him gratification for too long or too often or he will lose interest in you. Instead, he will build resentment. But keep things stable by not giving in to him all the time. Occasionally, turn down a booty call or even if you really don’t feel like it. By doing so, you are making him want to see you more often and do more things to get you.
Don’t: Brag about your skills in bed
Face it, nobody wants to be disappointed. Your man wants to be surprised with what you can do in bed. Although you know you are capable of rocking his world, keep it a secret. Let him discover these things about you. But most especially, don’t tell him how great you are at doing something yet you won’t even do it on him. To keep things safe, keep mum about your special abilities in bed.
Do: Be gentle even if he doesn’t satisfy you
Men always like to think they are strong and dominant. Even if you are the one bringing in more money, make him feel that he is the king in bed. This is because they have a huge insecurity when it comes to their stamina, penis size and ability to give you orgasm. But if he does not fully satisfy you, avoid faking it. Instead, you should talk to him about what works but make sure that you still praise him on the things that he is able to do really well. Once you are always making him feel insecure (especially on his ability to satisfy you), he will run and look for someone who is easier to please.
Do: Make him feel desirable
Most people think that the key to great sex is in the performance of the two people involved. If you believe you’re really good at something, this should not stop you from performing it on your man. However, you have to keep in mind that you should also express your strong desire for him. Aside from making him feel sexually powerful, you are also making him want you more. By doing this alone, you will be able to be a great turn on for him. Even if you aren’t skilled or experienced at a particular deed, he will still want you for making him feel good about himself.
