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Step 1

Live your own life. Continue doing things with family and friends without him at times and keep up your hobbies. This leads you to a more fulfilling life, which makes you a more desirable person to be around.

  • Step 2

    Accept invitations from your man to do something only when he has asked in advance. A man likes a woman who isn’t relying on him at all times–needy is unattractive.

  • Step 3

    Boost his ego occasionally. A great way to do this is to have him teach you something he knows a lot about, whether it is a video game, sport or anything else he is interested in.

  • Step 4

    Change your look every now and again. When you are going on a date to someplace nice, get a spray tan, have your nails and hair done and wear something sexy. This will get his attention and make you feel good as well.

  • Step 5

    Show interest in what he likes, even if you don’t like it. This doesn’t mean you have to pretend to like all the same things, but choose one or two tolerable things like going to a sporting event or watching a movie he wants to see which you aren’t as excited about.

  • Step 6

    Cook special meals every so often. Make something you haven’t served him before, or an unexpected meal which has three or more courses. Prepare the meal in advance if you have never made it before though.

  • Step 7

    Discuss issues as they arise instead of seething privately. It is healthy to talk out your problems and makes your relationship stronger in the long