Why do some men hate commitment?
Not all men hate it. Sometimes, men are the ones who initiate that you both start dating exclusively. There is a multitude of answers to that question however. Here’s a few:
– He’s not the type to commit because he either doesn’t believe in commitments or it’s not his priority.
– He has the ‘can’t hold me down attitude’ going on. He wants to be the boss of himself. Forever.
– He believes it’s a lot of work and doesn’t want to get caught up in all of it.
It could be one of these or all. There could be other reasons but men are simple. If we don’t want it, we really mean we don’t want it.
No commitment relationships – do they work?
No. As I’ve said, commitment comes in all forms. If by commitment you mean getting married, some relationships last without the “I do’s,” but for a relationship to work without any sort of commitment is impossible. With a relationship comes commitment, so some aspects will require you to commit to a scheduled agreement may it be as simple as taking out the trash or calling her to let her know about your whereabouts.
Commitment can mean a lot of things such as committing to one person aka loyalty or committing to one goal of a relationship. Tips for the ladies, before you ask your man to commit to you, know the signs that you are in a committable relationship, i.e. are you committable? Do you always fight about other women? Can you trust him to go out of town with just the boys? Do you keep catching him lying to you about where he spent the night? Do not pressure us to spend the rest of our lives with you. If we feel it, we’ll show you and who knows, maybe we’ll pop that question.
