If you want to win your ex boyfriend back after he broke up with you, then you might have no idea where to start. Well, here is a very effective approach that you can use to get what you want in no time at all:
Step One: Open up your communication lines once again.
Before you send your first text to your ex boyfriend, you have to make sure that the breakup happened at least a month ago. Another thing you have to make sure is that you don’t actually try to win your ex boyfriend right away. Instead, just open up your communication lines once again.
Keep in mind that your first texts might not even get a response to begin with, but this isn’t a problem. After all, you shouldn’t pressure your ex boyfriend into replying to you. Just open your communication lines, let him know that you are alright, and then slowly try and get him to see you in a positive light again.
Step Two: Talk about positive things.
By step two, you still shouldn’t try and win your ex boyfriend back. Instead, just try to incorporate the word “remember” in most of your texts, so he will start thinking about all of the fun times you had together. Make sure you only focus on happy memories, though.
Step Three: Become more intimate.
Step three revolves around intimacy. In other words, you have to remind your ex boyfriend how close you were and make him want to get closer to you again. This would work especially well if your ex boyfriend is currently going through some tough times.
Step Four: Take advantage of the jealousy game.
This step can be very powerful if used right. However, it could also backfire, so be careful and be subtle about it. Basically, this step entails letting your ex boyfriend know that you are alright and that other men have started to show interest in you. Once he sees that other men want you, he will start to want you again, too. The most important here is to make sure that your he doesn’t think you spend all day moping around at home, even if you are.
Step Five: Be honest.
The last step of this text message approach is to pour your heart out and admit how you really feel. This is the very last step, though, so make sure you don’t use it until later; otherwise, you could simply scare your ex boyfriend away.
