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Spend time where the older men are.
Explore online dating services, as well as introductions from friends, family and co-workers if you are comfortable sharing your potential interest in dating an older man.
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Search for common interest and hobbies that you share. The generational differences will be all too apparent, but finding common ground is what will allow the relationship to be successful.
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Ignore comments, unkind looks and negative speculation from others. You are bound to run into people who will not take your interest in an older man or his interest in you at face value, but as long as you know that your intentions as well as his are inline than you have no reason to justify your relationship.
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Respect that both your friends and family members and his may take a while to get used to this new relationship.
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Discuss your age difference openly. There is nothing more damaging to a relationship that ignoring the obvious. If a concern arises about age, discuss it openly and then move on.
Older men know what they want – so be ready.
Be ready to have more serious conversations, And more romance.
Remember an older has been there and done that – so he’s not into games.
They say once you’ve gone older you never turn back.
