After a breakup, you are apt to take one of two actions. You will become desperate and chase your ex boyfriend telling him you love him and need him. On the other extreme, you will sit alone crying and indulging in self pity. Neither of these actions will show him you deserve another chance. In fact they will show him that he was right to breakup with you. If you want him to feel that he should give you and the relationship another chance, take this action. Use these expert tips to regain your ex boyfriend’s love.
The best way of showing your ex that you deserve his love is to respect his wishes. When he broke up with you he probably said or implied that he needed space or a break. That means he does not want you to be chasing him and screaming you cannot live without him.You should not be calling him day and night to tell him you love him. He will not appreciate being bombarded with emails and text messages either.
If you have been guilty of any of these actions, you need to stop immediately. You are only pushing him farther away and showing him you do not appreciate him. Think back to the beginning, when you first met him, who did the chasing? I am sure it was your ex boyfriend because that is the role men feel they should play. When you chase him, he sees you as being needy and desperate.
If you want the man you love to even consider giving you another chance, you need to back off. Stop having any contact with him and move on with your life. Show him you have the strength and maturity to have a life of your own and you will regain his interest. Take some night classes to improve your job skills and work with the underprivileged and handicapped. When he sees you having compassion for others, he will have compassion for you.
Men want a woman by their side that they can count on in an emergency. When you were acting out of control, you were showing him the opposite. Your ex boyfriend saw something in you to admire, or he would never have fallen in love with you. By having the strength to accept the breakup and respect his wishes for space, you are showing him the woman he fell in love with. This will regain your ex boyfriends love and get you the second chance you deserve.
