Are you sick of dating losers, settling for less, or just not being able to find “Mr. Right?” Isn’t it about time you learned how to get the man you want instead? No matter what you are looking for in a relationship, the following tips can help you to learn how to get the man you want and help you find the happiness and fulfillment that you are looking for.
You’ve Got to Know What You Want
Before you can find the perfect man, you have to know what the perfect man is, right? Take out a sheet of paper and jot down what you want in a man and out of a relationship. Are you looking for commitment? Passion? Romance? Honesty? Someone you can trust? Someone who is hardworking and loyal? Once you get everything that you are looking for in a man and a relationship down on paper you will have a much better idea of what your needs are.
Not only that, but you will be better able to figure out some places that you could look to find a man that has most, if not all, of the things you are looking for. Besides all that, as corny as it sounds, sometimes when you put your wishes out there and state exactly what you want in life something almost magical happens and you suddenly find what you have been looking for. This is known as serendipity and it really works. Simply by stating what you want in a man, you may suddenly find that man in your life.
Go After What You Want
If you see a man who looks interesting, don’t be afraid to make eye contact, smile, walk over and introduce yourself. If you are shy you can start a conversation by giving him a compliment since that will help to put you both at ease. Most men like women who are confident, and by taking the first step you are opening up the doorway for communication and giving yourself a chance to see if that man might be the right one for you. If you never take that first step to initiate a conversation you may wind up watching the one who could have been Mr. Right walk right out the door without ever getting a chance to talk to him.
You’ve Got to Break Out of Your Rut
This section is for the women who keep making the same dating mistakes over, and over, and over again. Do you always seem to date the exact same type of guy? Has every guy you’ve dated wound up cheating on you? Is everyone you meet boring or do they leave you feeling unfulfilled? If so, you may be stuck in a rut.
As a woman, you probably find yourself attracted to a particular kind of guy. Maybe you always go for the “bad boys”, or maybe you like jocks. If you’ve been dating one bad boy after the other and keep winding up getting hurt, maybe it is time for you to consider dating some different types of men. You may be missing out on the perfect devoted, loving, caring man simply because he doesn’t wear the clothing you would expect or fit the mold of who you think you should be attracted to. Try taking a risk and stepping outside of your usually dating box. Go on a date with someone you normally would have ignored or not even noticed. You may just find that he turns out to be the perfect man for you.
