Be real -Don’t be what you think he wants, be yourself. So often girls tr so hard to impress a guy they lie about their interests and hobbies. What happens when the guy ends up liking you and then finds out you were lying from the beginning? it is not good for either of you, so be real from the beginning to avoid this issue.
Listen – We all want someone to listen to us when we talk, so do the same for him. You want to seem interested in what he is saying, make sure you give him eye contact. He wants his girl to be interested in things he is interested in, so give him the time and attention he craves.
Be supportive – Being one he can turn to when he needs someone is a great way to show you care. Don’t lose yourself – So many girls completely lose themselves when they start a relationship, but he may see that as a negative thing. Having your own interests and hobbies and allowing him to have his is a great way to create a good relationship. When you do your thing and he does his thing, it gives you both an independence everyone needs. It is important to stay true to yourself and do thing for yourself that make you happy. It also makes you interesting and confident when you carry on with your own projects. he may see that as a turn on and find it extremely sexy!
Don’t be clingy – While some men may like a woman clinging o his every move, most do not. In fact it can drive him away! You both need to have your space.
Call him out – No one is always right, so of course neither is your man. Call him out when he need it and let him straight. you don’t have to be mean about it, just let him know. This shows your confidence, another trait he finds sexy in a woman. at the same time if you are willing to dish it out make sure you can take it! Even you are not right all the time, so when he calls you on it, take it in and don’t fight over it.
Don’t nag – I have never met someone who enjoys being nagged.
Relax – Don’t always be so uptight, know when to take it easy! You want to take the serious side and put it away from time to time.
Smile – Smile often and laugh, everyone looks better with a smile on their face! A sense of humor is a trait almost everyone loves, so make sure you have one, but don’t over do it. You don’t want to be fake.
Eat – Guys don’t like a girl who orders a salad and then just picks at it. Eat like a normal person, and he will find that refreshing and sexy.
Be nice to his friends and family – When you are first dating his friends and family are the ones he will turn to for advice, so make a good impression. If you appear nice to them, they should have nice things to say bout you. Of course you do not want to be fake, but give everyone a chance and be warm to them.
Don’t be materialistic – No man wants a gold digger! Don’t date someone based on the car they drive, the clothes they wear, etc. Using someone for their materialistic items is never a good idea. If there are things in life you want, work for them yourself! Don’t ever use anyone to get items for you when you can get them for yourself! A man may find your rive to go after things you desire on your own attractive.
Do cute things – Keep the relationship spicy by doing cute, sexy things. Here are a few examples …
Buy him little unexpected gifts from time to time. Every girl likes to be given gifts, and so do men. Listen for things he wants like a CD, movie, book etc. Just little things can show him you care and listen!
Give him a love letter or card expressing your feelings for him. He will appreciate the effort to show him you care about him.
Whisper sweet nothings in his ear. These can range from cute to sexy whatever you think he will enjoy.
Jump in the shower with him.
Kiss him all over.
Little gestures can really make his day, especially if he had a rather tough one!
