It’s human nature to be anxious if it looks like a break up is pending in your relationship. Many times, ladies will become very paranoid if they think they are losing their relationship, and cling to their man even tighter. If you really want to get back your man, you have to stop what you’ve been doing and take a fresh approach to your relationship. Men like mystery, and if you’re always available, always in their faces you make yourself less desirable to them. This is a very difficult concept for women to grasp, as they want to bond with their man and be with him all the time. This is a huge mistake in any relationship, especially one in trouble.
If you have been bombarding your man with text messages, e-mails and phone calls all hours of the day or night, stop it right now. Men like a little mystery surrounding their women, and if they never get a chance to be away from you, how can you appear to be mysterious and exciting to them. Getting back your man involves letting him go. Let him go out with the boys for a night of beer and pool, or over to their buddies house to watch the big game. It’s okay, really. All too often, women are way too possessive of their men and all it does is drive them away. Men want to be the hunter, not the hunted.
So, if you are to stop all the contact with your man for a while, what should you do with yourself? You should take this as a perfect opportunity for self-improvement–you’ll make yourself even more desirable to your man this way. Study current events so you can be a sparkling conversationalist with anyone you meet. Go through your closet and throw out or donate to charity unflattering outfits that no longer fit you. Take the time and get a flattering new haircut, or try out a new hair color. Volunteer your time with an organization of your choice. Helping others always makes you feel good, and volunteering is a great way to meet new people who expose you to even a wider range of interests.
