How Does Having A Threesome Affect A Relationship?

Jealousy

Morality aside, the biggest problem with inviting a third person into the bedroom with you is the jealousy that almost always develops. It doesn’t matter how much you have talked about it or how comfortable you feel with the decision to do it, the old cliche, “Two is company, three is a crowd,” applies to this situation perfectly. If a couple decides to add another woman, for example, the original woman will most likely become jealous of the attention the new woman receives. She may feel like her partner is not spending enough time on her. She may also struggle with these feelings when she and her partner engage in future sexual acts as a couple.

Cheating

Many couples that were faithful to each other prior to having a threesome end up having trouble with cheating. Once the monogamy has been broken, it is harder to resist the temptation to engage in sexual acts with someone outside of the relationship

. Oftentimes, the person who cheats does so with the person who was involved in the threesome.

Feelings of Insecurity

Another feeling that often develops after a threesome is insecurity.

Seperation/Divorce

In most cases, couples who decide to have a threesome end up separating. The problems and negative feelings that occur as a result of this act are usually too difficult to deal with or overcome.

Considerations

Sex is an intimate act intended to take place between two people. Any disruption of this natural design will almost always result in problems. Most couples who desire to try a threesome are doing so because they are seeking to add spice to their sex life. Instead of adding a third person to their bed, they should take the time to find out and discuss the underlying problem. Oftentimes, the real trouble with the relationship has very little to do with sex. Couples who work at getting to the root of problem and take the steps to fix it are very likely to experience a rejuvenated and strong relationship, both sexually and otherwise.