Hey this is The Loverman
Try to make love more often. These days with jobs and kids we are all busy but you need to set time aside to become physically intimate. Sex is good for you both. It reduces stress, helps you fall back in love if you feel you are “losing the loving feeling”. It’s a bad habit not to have sex and that can become a habit, but you can make sex a habit too and that’s good! Even if you have to make time for it and schedule it, that is better than not doing it at all!
Just go with it. In a romance, try not to analyze. Just enjoy it for what it is. If it’s making you happy, putting a spring in your step and giving you a reason to smile, enjoy it now, all you and I have is NOW. Foreboding about what may be is wasteful.
Don’t go to bed angry. This causes stress depression. Talk about how you feel get it out in the open, communicate with each other and open your heart. laying in bed with all your anger and resentment and hurt pent up inside is now way to sleep. Sleep should be restful and calming.
Be kind to one another. Treat each other how you would treat other people whom you respect and admire. Do not take advantage or each other for granted be aware of this. DO things for one another, it’s ok to be nice and to cater once in a while. Have manners “please”, “thank you “,”may I”.
Support one another. Allow them to have and share their goals aspirations desires and dreams. Never discourage or put them down that is critical and people who usual do that are not happy in their own lives. be happy for them and what they chose to do wether it be a free lance artist, actor, office manager, bar tend, teacher.
Try not to call him or text him constantly. When in love we become vulnerable and want to reach out but there is such a thing as being needy and smothering. Neediness is a turn off, not a turn on. Sure in the beginning he or she may think it’s cute but after a while, you’ll feel like a thorn in their side. Give the person time to think about you and time to miss you. if you are always on the phone with them..how can they do that?
Curb the jealousy. Jealousy is an ugly trait, nothing good comes from it. It is plain old tiresome, infantile, sophomoric, when you love someone, there should be zero jealousy. Don’t get me wrong if someone is gawping at your man or woman you tend to get upset but laugh it off, they are with you! Take it as a compliment. If you are jealous because you do not trust who you are with or a situation, time to reaches the relationship and your own issues.
