Dating Mistakes You Didn’t Even Know You Were Making
- Ignoring Social Cues: Not asking questions and ignoring things about your date. “Everybody’s favorite topic in the whole world is themselves. “Ask questions. “That person could walk away and think there was no chemistry, but you would be great for his/her next door neighbor. It’s all about networking: open yourself up and learn about something new. Instead of being negative, make dating a positive experience.
- Talking about Your Ex: “Anywhere between zero and a little bit is too much.
- Basing Everything on Chemistry: Realize there are multiple forms of chemistry that all have to align in order for a love connection. Aside from physical chemistry, there must be intellectual chemistry. “If the person across from you can’t spell Bob backwards, things will fall apart,” she warns. The third type of chemistry is emotional chemistry — being available to open yourself up to another person. And the last, and most important form of chemistry, is spiritual chemistry. “When you think of someone spiritually, you think of someone who is kind, giving and loving. “You want to be with someone who is generous and kind with his mind, time, heart and soul. Why? You want that person to be able to roll with you through the good times and the bad.”
- Bringing in Baggage: “When you enter a relations.
