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Perceive the way men think. Since men are more methodical and think in terms of logistics rather than emotion, it is difficult for them to communicate their feelings to you.
Learn how men are hardwired. From the dawn of their existence, men have been hardwired as providers and problem-solvers. Consistency is something that has to be learned as men are likely to try to resolve issues in one shot. If he is open to learning consistency, be sure that you are providing a good example to him.
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Bow down to his ego. Although men love and need you to show confidence, they do not want you to be dominant outside the four walls of the bedroom. Stroking a man’s ego by allowing him to be a dominant force will open the door for him to see you as an equal and less of a threat to his own manhood. Remember that there is a difference between being a doormat and backing down every now and then.
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Capture and keep his attention. As previously stated, men love you to be confident. Having an edge that excites a man along with confidence is a winning combination. Making a man work for your affection without being too pompous will keep his attention and give you the advantage in a relationship. When a man’s attention is lost, he is more likely to move on to the next new and exciting thing, which is usually another woman.
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Avoid pressuring for commitment. Above all things you must learn that pressuring your man into commitment will only trigger two responses: fight or flight. Neither will get you closer to your goal of commitment and even if he does give in, it will not be with the devotion or sincerity you wished for. Be patient and your man will commit wholeheartedly when he’s ready. As long as you still hold his attention, you hold the key.
