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Telling him how you feel way too early in the relationship and attempting to force him to commit.

Telling a man how much you like him on the first date and then progressing to declarations of love by the third, is one of the best ways to see first-hand how fast he can run; away from you that is. Having the “where is this going talk,” is never a good idea. Having it too early is a deal breaker. The man will instantly assume that you are not interested in getting to know him as a person.

Becoming clingy and insecure.

When a woman does not know where the relationship is going, or is not sure that a man is really interested in her seriously, she can become very clingy and insecure. Every minute the man spends away from her (seeing friends or pursuing hobbies) is a nightmare for her. She assumes that he doesn’t want to spend time with her or is seeing other women. 

  • Forgetting family, friends and hobbies. Once a woman gets into a relationship (there are exceptions to everything) she suddenly has no life or interests outside of that relationship. In other words she becomes boring. Having a life of your own, having hobbies, regularly spending time with friends and family is what gives you depth, makes you interesting and aids your development as a human being. Never be the woman who would rather watch her man read a book than read one herself.