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‘It’s hard to wake up to the same person everyday,’ Ja Rule says. However, he and his wife Aisha Atkins have been married for 14 years. The secret to their long-lasting marriage is ‘friendship.’

‘We weren’t always best friends and that’s when we argued most and had our most rough times,’ he revealed. ‘The only thing, I feel doesn’t get stale, is friendship.’

Like most relationships, Ja and Aisha have had their share of highs and lows, sex droughts and disagreements.

As for keeping it fresh int he bedroom, Ja says, ‘We’re creative people. We try things.’

Catch Ja and his wife on their reality show Follow The Rules, Monday nights at 10 on MTV.

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The Secret To Ja Rule’s 14-Year Marriage Is ‘Friendship’ was originally published on hellobeautiful.com