Loverman Tips of The Day

Resolve conflicts or disagreements respectfully It is a myth that happy couples never disagree. You will not agree on everything.  Learn to resolve conflicts when you are calm and cool.  You have to remember the person you are disagreeing with is still your partner – best friend – the person you love.  No name calling talk […]

Consider your partner’s sexual needs. Sex is a big part of most romantic relationships – remaining a matter of give and take. Avoid judging your partner’s interests or boundaries and speak openly with him/her about what you want and don’t want.

Balance your busy life with your relationship. You may have to say No to some things, such as after-work drinks with your co-workers or joining another committee. Don’t jeopardize your job or other relationships, but prioritize to give a balance, which helps keep your relationship healthy.

Give each other compliments. Like You're gorgeous or your smile is amazing. It's always good for your partner to be reminded of how you think of them.    

Take good care of yourself. Treating yourself with respect and love is as important as respecting and loving your partner. Do not exclude your partner from your life, it will only cause resentment.

We should love someone because of who they are. In relationships it is up to us to love our partner for who they are and where they are in life.  Don’t try to change someone to make them fit your life.  Relationships are about accepting and growing together.

Try New Things Whenever you hear about anything new, go do it.  A new restaurant, go dancing, a resort just outside of your town, etc. Whatever it is, suggest that you do it together. Doing new things together is always exciting and it will help you learn more about each other. ALSO TRY NEW THINGS […]

Remember you are a team and do the important things together. Celebrate, worship and face hardships together. Also try and see things from each other’s perspective. You will appreciate each other more and it will strengthen your partnership.  Go team huddle up and go win the game. (Your relationship)

 Laugh, A LOT Even at yourself – The truth is, people who laugh together have a bond that transcends the ordinary. Plus laughter makes you live longer, too. (which means you’ll both be around a lot longer to enjoy each other)

Be thoughtful: Small things can make the other person’s day.  Ok this could be simple things like making your partner a cup of coffee in the morning. Or going to Starbucks and taking them a cup to work – or sending them a sweet text.  It doesn’t take much to make someone feel good.

Have presence by living in the NOW  and knowing what’s going on right now – today. When you’re present, knowing how your partner’s mood is becomes easier.  Show you care and be available in times of stress, joy or sadness – sharing the burdens he carries and being there to help lighten the load.

Make time to surprise your partner.   Sometimes little things mean more then the big things. Cooking – cleaning – flowers – a kiss for no reason – a I love you out of nowhere.  Surprises bring back the spark and spice you need to have a great relationship.