It is time to let down our hair, be free because for most of us the work week is over and as Johnny Kemp said (for my old school heads), “Just Got Paid. It’s Friday Night…Money In My Pocket.” If you are feeling frisky and you do not have a Mr. Regular to scratch your itch, then you may have to go back to the reserves–Mr. Booty Call. There are certain men, we all know, that do not want to be our future husbands; Mr .Booty Call’s skill-set can only be applied indoors. If you are the type of girl that can have sex with no strings attached then following these simple do nots can make life a bit easier. Remember, know thy self and always use a condom.
You call him, he does not get to call you: You (as the female) have the hook-up, not the other way around. Men do not have vaginas so they do not decide anything, therefore you are in charge. You are in control; and if you’re grown enough to do it then you have to empower yourself.
Sexual Past: Do You Share Or “Shh”?
Do Not Lie To Him: He is just being used for that good stuff. Most men do not care but some do and you will not win any points in heaven for lying to a good guy that is truly into you.
Do Not Do It To Feel Good, Sexy or Because You are Lonely: Check your self -esteem before you walk in the door; booty calls are Grown Folks Business. If you are using sex to feel good about yourself, then you should stay away.
Do Not Use Terms of Endearment: If the two of you have an understanding the quickiest way to get your feelings involved in the booty call is when you start to call each little nick names. So save the Baby, Sweetie or Boo for a real proscept–Not the jump off. Keep it just about the sex so that your judgement does not become clouded.
Oldie But A Goodie: Do Not Stay Over: No matter how tired you get, leave. This is where you can get caught up too, your relationship is purely sexual so just acccept it for what it is. If you start to catch feelings–end it!
