Finding a good man these days has become very rare. You know that almost all men are after only one thing. But in this ruckus if you manage to find a good man then you know that he is for keeps. Here are few ways to keep a good man.
Don’t give him useless grief
Good men are quite straightforward by nature. So to get through to them you don’t need to give them a hard time. They will value you just as much if you are direct and straightforward with them. If you want to keep him you will have to refrain from the useless drama.
Be genuine
Good men also want to be with genuine people as they themselves are genuine. Try to be as true to your real nature so that he doesn’t get any unpleasant surprises.
Show him that you care
Don’t hesitate to show this man that you care about him. Do all the small sweet stuff that you can to show him your appreciation. Be there to brighten up a dull or bad day and spice up a good one. You should be the one who is with him to share his ups and downs always.
Be spunky
In your effort to be a good woman don’t lose your spunk. That’s the reason that he fell for you. You don’t have to be like him. You just have to be like you so retain your individuality and your spunky attitude and keep him with you.
Innovate
Don’t let the relationship get boring and dull by letting it set into the region of predictability. Innovate and come up with new things to do that make the relationship exciting. Develop an interest for his hobbies or try to do activities that you can do together and see your relationship prosper.
Don’t hound him
Give your man some space. You don’t have to prove your love to him by hounding him all the time. Give him some time alone as well so that he can enjoy your company more. Hanging out with him all the time might bog him down and make him feel like you are suffocating him.
Trust him
A man needs his woman to trust him. When you don’t trust a good man he feels unnecessarily pressured. He also cannot see the value behind being good and then not being trusted. Have faith in your man and in your relationship. Once you entrust him with your trust and emotions he will not abuse that. And once you trust him he will not feel monitored and will be with you.
