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Step 1

Give her a flower each time you see her. Try giving her a rose, a daisy or her favorite flower before your date. This sweet gesture shows that you don’t need a special holiday to show her some affection.

  • Step 2

    Watch the sunrise together. Enjoying nature together shows her that you want her by your side to enjoy the simple pleasures of life.

  • Step 3

    Take long walks together and ask her about her goals and dreams in life. At the end of the walk, plan a surprise picnic and enjoy the sunset.

  • Step 4

    Be a good listener. A girl needs to know that you care about the things that she says. Ask her about what she likes to do, or about her favorite movies or books.

  • Step 5

    Be there for her when she has had a rough day. Allow her to vent about her coworkers, friends or family. She will love that you care about the things that happen in her life.

  • Step 6

    Be chivalrous. Open doors for her. Offer her your coat or jacket if she is cold. Carry heavy objects for her, such as her books. Hold the umbrella for her if it is raining. Run and get the car for her so she doesn’t have to walk through bad weather. These simple acts show her that you will go out of your way to make sure that she is comfortable and that you are taking care of her needs.

  • Step 7

    Make her laugh. Most girls love guys who have a sense of humor. She will want to spend time with you if she knows that you can make her smile.

  • Step 8

    Keep some distance from her sometimes. Don’t be too available. Try skipping a day before you respond to her e-mail or to a text message. Once in awhile, you can even say that you aren’t available to go on a date with her. Give her an opportunity to miss you.