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Chances are you and your partner own cell phones. If your looking for a simple yet effective way to improve your sex life then let me recommend text messaging. Here are a few ways you can use text messaging to spice things up in the bedroom.

Step 1

For starters if you have some sort of sexual fantasy or desire that you would like to be fufilled you can use text messaging to let your partner know. Sometimes it is very hard to talk to your partner about things you desire so text messaging is a to say what you want without feeling any added pressure. Being able to send a text instead of having to say it face to face will make things more comfortable for you.

  • Step 2

    Text messaging can also be used as a form of foreplay. Stop thinking that foreplay can only happen in the bedroom. Foreplay should start way before the actual act of intercourse occurs. Through out the day you can send each other suggestive messages that will get them in the mood. Tell your partner what you want to do to them when they get home. Trust this will make for some mind blowing sex. The anticipation alone will make it well worth the wait.

  • Step 3

    Though text messaging can have a great affect on your sex life there are a few things you should be cautious about. DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT send text messages to a phone that is not exclusivley used by your partner. These type of text messages are private and should not be able to be read by anyone else. Also never ever ever send text messages to a phone that has been issued to them by their employer. Those phones are the property of the company so anytime they choose they can go through that phone and see what has been going on.