Step 1
The saying is true. The way to a mans heart is through his stomach. When a man gets off work he is more likely to want to go home if he knows he will have a hot, delicious meal waiting on him. If you don’t know how to cook you need to learn how. Get some cookbooks and just start trying. Make sure you don’t cook the same thing every night. If a man has had chicken for the past three nights he’s more likely to opt for a cheeseburger and head for the bowling alley or where ever he likes to hang out.
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2
Make sure you look nice when he gets home. If you’ve been spit up on or playing outside with the kids all day, take some time for yourself right before he gets home. Sit the kids in front of a dvd or tell them they need a thirty minute nap and freshen yourself up. Change into something that fits your form nicely, put on a dab of perfume or body spray, and touch up your hair and makeup. He won’t know that you just did this, he’ll just think “wow, my wife looks beautiful today”. and for alot of men this is a subconcious thing so if he doesn’t tell you that you look great don’t worry about it. He knows.
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3
Make sure the house is in order. Keep a basket that you can carry through the house to pick up last minute misplaced items, and spray some air freshener or light a candle. If a stressed out man is used to coming home to a crazy pigsty he’s going to end up going somewhere else or just coming home in an awful mood. Setting a feeling of ambience and order in your house makes it a warm, comfortable home.Also, if it is possible, try to get the kids to wind down for daddys arrival. If you got them to watch a movie or take a nap for your freshen up time there shouldn’t be much else you need to do.If they are still pretty hyper you could try story time. Make sure that they are all clean and presentable. What man wouldn’t love coming home to a beautiful wife, and beautiful children?
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When your husband does come home home, hug and kiss him, and ask how his day went.If you don’t get a postive answer say “oh that’s too bad babe. well I hope you’re hungry, I ‘ve got (some delicious meal) all ready for you”. Don’t pester him or try to have serious talks right when he gets home. Just let him know that you are so happy to have him there. He may just want to feel loved and needed.
