Go MIA on Facebook
You and your BFF spend forever crafting cute updates—just in case he sees them. But sometimes not posting anything is cooler. If he always knows what you’re up to, there’s no real reason for him to seek you out. But if you’re on his radar and then suddenly poof! —he’ll go bananas wondering what you’re doing and will reach out. Besides, FB chats might be fun, but nothing beats getting to know someone IRL!
Stop dating players
If something seems to good to be true, it usually is. Keep that in mind when you’re meeting new guys—if you have a feeling that things seem so perfect that they’re almost calculated, you might be right. Take it slow, and always trust your instincts!
Trust your BGF
Before you overanalyze, go right to the source! Use your guy friends to help you weed out the bad ones from the good ones, and figure out what’s really going on with a guy you like. He’ll have the best insight into the situation, and you can trust that your guy friend will be able to give you the honest truth about your love drama.