Timing – Most people pick the wrong time to communicate. You can’t just grab someone after he or she gets off of work to discuss an important topic. A lot of people are irritated and you won’t get anywhere. Tone – Sometimes you might change the tone of your voice when you’re communicating with someone. Don’t start the conversation with – You did. Start the conversation with – Baby – We should – or try starting with a compliment – like you know you are so amazing the way you get the house clean – then just talk about what you need from your partner. Place – The best time to communicate is over a cup of coffee – relaxing in the bedroom – or somewhere comfortable – I think this is so important because you know you’re getting ready to talk – and the conversation is not coming at a time you are not ready for it.