SECURITY. Beyond the basic needs of food, water, etc., security is on top of the list as a need for a man to be happy. Security of health, employment, family, and partner he loves. You may not have much control over some of these, although if you are a good partner, you will encourage the man you love. A man will be happier knowing his relationship is secure and that his family, whether parents and siblings or children, are at peace with his partner. Do your best to be a peacemaker.