Don’t do the self pity thing because that relationship was not supposed to happen. Your king is still out there.
This is the time to get you together.
When you are ready get out of the house, have some fun. Remember, if you see someone you like, flirt with him and let him know you are interested. It is 2013. When you do meet someone, do not talk about you ex because that is a chapter in your life that’s gone. Love will happen even after being burned but sometimes so does getting burned again. Don’t be afraid. Be open to loving again and get smart about what you want and who you want it from and you will see that being hurt will be something in your distant past.