You had a strong feeling that you found your soul mate and fantasize about spending the rest of your life with him. But some things changed and the two of you decided to call it quits.
When is winning your ex back a smart move?
Consider why you want to be back with him. Are you just bored with single life or do you still have feelings for him? Do you just want him back because you couldn’t accept the fact that he does not see himself spending the rest of his life with you? Be true to yourself.
Try to figure out why you broke up. Make sure to look back on the relationship you had with him before initiating contact.
One sign that winning your ex back may be a good decision is if you can say what your old problems were to him and him to you. If you cannot discuss these problems freely, then getting back together with him for the second is not for you.
Getting him back
If you want to win him back, you have to be the person he fell deeply in love with.
Reach out to him. If you can, do this in person, if not send a text. Find a way to talk to him. NO BLAME – JUST TALK.