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How Soon Should You Have Sex With Your New Boyfriend Or Girlfriend?

Love Tip 1: Some men don’t respect women who are too sexually available too soon. Women don’t like men who are too pushy.  No matter what your date might say, men are taught to think poorly of women who have sex with them too soon. Women do not like to be pressured, and most men don’t either.

Love Tip 2: Take your time and enjoy the ride! There are so many fun things you can do- kissing, fooling around with your clothes on, etc. Enjoy the buildup! Dating is a process of getting to know each other. Ask yourself if the chemistry is there, if you enjoy one another’s company, if this is a person that you enjoy on many levels. The more compatible you are, the better the sex is likely to be. After all, anticipation is half the fun!

Love Tip 3: Be safe, be sure and be healthy!

Love Tip 4: Studies would say never have sex on the first date. This is a bad idea because of love tip #1.  They recommend waiting at least a month or two before having intercourse. Some may not like this or think it’s stupid, but think about it – when you have sex with someone it can be so powerful. Do you want to fall in love with Mr. or Ms. Right or Wrong? You need to consider if you are emotionally ready to take that next step.